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What Not To
Do When You Want Your Ex Back!
by
Marius Panzarella, author
of Reverse My Breakup
1) Do NOT fight with him.
Fighting ALWAYS creates tension and
kills attraction. Fighting with an ex is useless. Even if you win the
argument, you will still lose the war.
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2) Do NOT try to use logic to "convince" him to stay or come back to
you.
Love is based on FEELINGS, not logic. No
matter how brilliant your logic is, he's still going to leave you if he
wants to, no matter how much "sense" it makes to stay.
3) Do NOT reassure your ex that you have "changed" or that things
will be "different from now on."
It's like trying to bail water out of a
sinking boat. It won't work. The hole will still be there.
4) Do NOT keep telling him that you love him.
He doesn't care. All he cares about is
how much HE loves YOU...not the other way around!
5) Do NOT beg him to come back.
The more you beg, the more you will push
him away.
6) Do NOT try to make him feel guilty about leaving you.
(Examples: "I can't live without you."
and "Don't break up with me during a
difficult time in my life...") It won't work. It will only make him
DREAD being with you even more.
7) Do not act depressed to make him feel bad for you.
Sympathy does NOT equal ATTRACTION!
8) Do NOT talk to his friends to win their support.
All he cares is how HE feels about you.
Even if his friends love you, they can't make him love you forever.
External pressure never lasts for long. If your man decides to stay with
you, his motivation has to come from WITHIN.
9) Do NOT cry in front of him.
While he may hug you, he will be proud
that he has so much power over you...and move on to another woman.
10) Do NOT push him into getting back with you.
The more you push, the more he will PULL
AWAY.
These are the most common mistakes women make during a breakup. Trust
me, you don't want to do ANY of these things. If you do, I can guarantee
you your relationship will be doomed. You probably won't even get a
chance to kiss your boyfriend goodbye, let alone get him back. I deal
with dozens of breakup cases every week, so I KNOW what I am talking
about!
 The good news is that most breakup
cases are 'reversible'. I've written a book that gives you the info to
reverse your breakup. You will get a step-by-step formula for reversing
your breakup and winning your love back. So if you have an ex-boyfriend
(or ex-husband) you would like to win back, you should definitely
download this guide now at:
Reverse My Breakup
-Marius Panzarella
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