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by Mimi Tanner, author of
Man Mistake Eraser
Here is a recent email I received:
I was just on the verge of calling my ex, whose name is John. It
has been a year since we split apart and three months since we
last talked.
When John left me, it took me by complete surprise as it was
totally out of the blue. I was able to walk away retaining what
dignity I had.
My last words said to him were, "I was a good
girlfriend to you ... if you are going to leave, I wish you the
best of luck finding someone who will give you what I gave."
Not even three months later, he was calling me again. I finally
put an end to his phone calls back in December, but got the urge
ironically to call him today.
Good thing I read your email, because it reminded me of all
the things I did for him that we women do for our significant
others, only to sometimes not get respected in return.
Thanks again, "M."
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Dear M., thank YOU. Your ex-boyfriend is now regretting his impulsive
decision. It was his choice to take the chance of losing her forever by
walking away, so now he has to live with the consequences.
How did M. handle her situation? She walked away (without making an
unpleasant scene, too). She wished him all the best. She virtually guaranteed that she would be
hearing from her "ex" again... She was as "proactive"
as you can be in that situation!
She took control of the situation by
actually creating in him a fear of loss. Her parting words to him had to
make him wonder if he would ever find someone as great as she was to
him.
M. didn't want to try again with her ex - and in her case, I think she
made the right decision. Generally, when people treat you badly more
than once, chances are good that they are not going to change.
But the "Calling Men" moral
of the story is - when things are breaking up and you want him to come
back to you in the near future - M.'s way can virtually guarantee that
he will reappear "like magic" ... and at that point, it will be your
"call" to say yes or no.
Mimi Tanner
Author of Calling Men - the complete guide to calling and
emailing the man you are dating!
www.callingmen.com
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"Did I Do Something Wrong - That Drove Him Away?"
Should you spend time worrying about what you did wrong when he
stops calling you, or wants to leave you?
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on what you think you did wrong. Bob says you will deal with that AFTER
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relationship is established again, and the man feels safe enough to
share and to explore those feelings/reasons."
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