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How To Get Over a Breakup or Divorce

I asked Bob Grant, author of The Woman Men Adore (a book which I recommend HIGHLY and which readers have had high praise of) to share some insights with us from time to time.

Bob Grant talks to many men and women who are going through a divorce. He advises that the first few months after a divorce/breakup are NOT the time to try and figure out what went wrong.

"The first and most critical step is to allow yourself time to heal. DON'T isolate yourself. If you did, it would be impossible for others to support you. The first 6 months to a year after a divorce are hard enough, so don't make it worse. Force yourself to rise from your sorrow if you have to. Get out there and spend time around caring people - now more than ever."

Bob says that we may discover that we are always secretly drawn to men who expose areas in our lives that we need to work on. "They push your buttons," Bob says. "The men you date or marry will expose your unresolved issue - always."  (continued...)
 

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Take this example: Susan just got divorced. Her husband always expressed anger by yelling. This made her feel out of control. Susan now swears that she will never again marry a man who yells.

"Within 2 years, Susan meets and marries Jeff. Jeff never gets angry. Problem solved - right? No. Jeff gets angry like everyone else, but when he's angry, he becomes silent. Susan finds that this silence brings about the same panic in her that her first husband's yelling did," says Bob.

"Has she made a bad choice with Jeff? No, but she has to deal with those feelings of being out of control. The situation forces her to deal with those feelings. If she blames Jeff for her unhappiness, she is destined to divorce again."

Bob has hope for the pain of lost love: "To fully rise from the pain of a breakup, the final stage of healing is so simple yet most people miss it:

"Forgive yourself, and forgive your ex. Forgive yourself for all the things you could have done. Forgive your spouse for everything you wish he had
done.

"Make the decision to move on and leave the past behind, no matter what it is. That is the final step in emerging from a divorce or breakup."

That's from Bob Grant, the author of Get Your Man Back

Just recently, when going through the email, I got this note about Bob Grant's book:

"Dear Mimi,

"Thanks for the advice on ordering this e-book! It's brilliant! I can't believe my man is doing so much for me! Thanks again -- J." 

That book she just finished, by Bob Grant, is:

The Woman Men Adore  - How To Be The Woman Men Adore, and Never Want To Leave

Another reader said this:

"Anyway, I just wanted to say thanks for recommending this book. I would never normally buy things like this from the internet - I am just one of those who think it will be a complete rip-off  - but this is not. I am already telling my friends about these techniques and the book."

www.TheWomanMenAdore.com

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